We Lady-Links think about “linking” each time we visit a dear friend. That’s where our name originated…helping ladies in cognitive decline continue to link to important parts of their lives. These connections or “links” as we like to call them are a way for our dear friends to continue to interact with us and the world around them. This helps our dear friends maintain cognitive function, improve their mood, and enhance the overall quality of their lives. To do this, we use objects or “props” to facilitate conversation and interest. Tapping into memories is easy when we bring something to our Show and Tell visits that we know our dear friend probably did when she was younger. Sewing and crafting are two big topics that our generation most likely enjoyed at some point in time in our lives.
Using open-ended questions such as “tell me about…” or “what did you do when you…” or “how did you …” help facilitate conversation.
Such interaction (linking) can potentially slow the progression of the cognitive decline. Socialization through shared memories helps reduce isolation and can lead to increased feelings of self-worth. Our Show and Tell visits provide many benefits for both the dear friend and her Lady-Links, with everyone enjoying a trip down memory lane. These visits are fun and lead to an abundance of love and laughter expressed throughout our time together.
I love how beautifully you describe the heart behind Lady-Links and the meaningful “linking” you create for friends experiencing cognitive decline. Using memories, simple props, and open-ended conversations is such a thoughtful way to spark connection, joy, and a sense of purpose.
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